Anniversary Dinner

Celebrating 25 Years of Strength and Resilience: FAIR  Dinner at Banbridge

Introduction: In a world that often overlooks the plight of victims and survivors, the FAIR Victims Group has stood as a beacon of hope and support for a quarter of a century. This year marks a remarkable milestone – the 25th Anniversary of the FAIR Victims Group. To celebrate this journey of strength, resilience, and justice, the group organised a special dinner at Banbridge. This event was a poignant and empowering gathering, bringing together survivors, advocates, and allies to commemorate the progress made and to renew the commitment to the ongoing fight for justice.

Reflecting on 25 Years: Founded in 1998,  FAIR  has been unwavering in its dedication to providing support, understanding, and resources to those who have experienced injustice. Over the past 25 years, the group has not only been a lifeline for victims but has also played a pivotal role in raising awareness about the challenges survivors face in their pursuit of justice.

The journey has been marked by triumphs and challenges, but through it all,  FAIR  has remained steadfast in its mission to advocate for fairness, accountability, integrity, and respect. The anniversary is an opportunity to reflect on the progress made and acknowledge the collective strength that has fueled the group's impact over the years.

A Night of Celebration at Banbridge: The anniversary dinner at Banbridge promises to be a night filled with reflection, celebration, and unity. Set against the backdrop of this picturesque venue, attendees will have the chance to connect with fellow survivors, share stories, and find solace in the shared experience of overcoming adversity.

The program for the evening includes speeches from key figures within the FAIR Victims Group, highlighting the achievements and milestones reached over the past 25 years. Special guests, including advocates and community leaders, will also share their insights on the importance of supporting victims and survivors in their quest for justice.

The dinner at Banbridge is not just a celebration but a recommitment to the principles that have guided the FAIR Victims Group throughout its existence. It is an acknowledgment of the strength of survivors and a call to action for continued advocacy in the face of ongoing challenges.

Looking Forward: As FAIR  enters its next chapter, the anniversary dinner serves as a springboard for the future. With the unwavering support of its members, allies, and the broader community, the group aims to continue its mission of creating a more just and compassionate society.

As we celebrate 25 years, let us not only reflect on the past but also look forward with optimism and determination. The journey ahead may be challenging, but with a united front and a commitment to justice, FAIR  will undoubtedly continue to make a lasting impact in the lives of survivors and in the broader fight for a fair and equitable society.

Conclusion: The 25th Anniversary dinner at Banbridge is more than a commemoration of the past; it is a celebration of the resilience, strength, and unity that define  FAIR and its members. As survivors, advocates, and allies come together to mark this significant milestone, they stand not only as a testament to the progress made but as a beacon of hope for the future. May FAIR continue to shine brightly for the next 25 years and beyond, inspiring change and fostering justice for all.


Narrowwater Memorial Service 2023

A dignified service was held today at Narrow Water the site of one of the worst atrocities in the Province.  The service was organised by FAIR as they have done for  so for many years.  

The Frontier Pipes and Drums Veterans Pipe Band provided the music.  Service was officiated by Revd Graham Middleton with John Robinson (Lt Col ret.) reading Roll of Honour and Act of Remembrance and Ben Higgins (ex WO11 QOH) reading collect of Queen’s own Highlanders .  Piper was  Bert Harkness and Bugler John Henry.  

Wreaths were laid QOH, Armed Forces Bikers, PSNI, FAIR , Newry RBL, DUP, TUV and UUP.  

FAIR spokesperson Molly Carson said 

“ It’s very important to the families this day to remember the sacrifice of their husbands, fathers, sons. brothers, uncles and other relatives .  Young men on a peace keeping mission callously murdered by cowardly IRA terrorists who never engaged in battle but planted bombs .  

Thank you to all those who participated in the service and everyone who attended.  I wish to add my personal thanks for a lovely service and all those who attended from The Armed Forces Bikers Club.  Thanks also to the PSNI for their security., at the event” 


Highlights of the High Tea

With Afternoon teas and high teas all the fashion now our members and friends were in for a real treat. FAIR organised an al fresco high tea today where everyone enjoyed time together before the holiday break. With many events and activities planned for the summer months it was good to enjoy a more relaxed occasion. Thank you to our catering volunteers Liza, Charlean, Mary, Jesica and Sam. a big thank you to May, Lisa, Mary and Sam for the delicious sweets served. Great time was had by all.


Supporting ‘The Greenfinches’.

NI Veterans Commissioner supports ‘The Greenfinches’.

I was disappointed, but unfortunately not surprised, to learn that Sinn Fein representatives on Armagh, Banbridge and Craigavon Borough Council have lodged a ‘call in’ legal challenge to a motion passed by a majority of councillors to pay tribute to the women who served in the the Ulster Defence Regiment, commonly known as the Greenfinches. This summer will mark the 50th anniversary since the first female recruits joined the ranks of the Ulster Defence Regiment. As Veterans Commissioner I will continue to call out this ongoing denigration and demonisation of our Armed Services and veterans, and will call out the misogyny of not recognising the important work of women in our Armed Forces, of which the Greenfinches were instrumental in contributing and expanding the roles available to women in supporting Operations.

UDR Greenfinch Radio Operator early 1980s

Over the course of 22 years, 60,000 men and women wore the uniform of the Ulster Defence Regiment to help protect innocent civilians against the harm of terrorists that brought chaos and murder to our streets during the Troubles.  These brave men and women did so with the understanding that their service placed them at risk every hour of every day – there was no respite on duty or off duty or even after they left the Regiment. Greenfinches were an important, unarmed part of providing this protection and sadly, there is a long Roll of Honour for those members of the Regiment who lost their lives at the hands of terrorism, of which four were Greenfinches. In total, 197 UDR soldiers and Greenfinches were killed both on and off duty, as well as over 60 killed after leaving the Regiment. Over 400 were seriously wounded and many still continue to suffer both psychologically and physically as a result of their service.

The brave men and women who served with the Ulster Defence Regiment, did so with great honour and dignity and stood against terrorism and all its horrors, on behalf of all society. I importantly note how families were impacted by terrorism, needing to check cars for bombs before getting in, and worried incase their loved ones might not return home after their shift.  Many unfortunately still bear the pain of losing family members, whether as a member of the security services or indeed families from the innocent civilian population.

In 2006, when Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II, came to Belfast to present the Conspicuous Gallantry Cross to the Ulster Defence Regiment she said that the contribution of the Regiment to peace and stability within Northern Ireland had been unique and had required ‘uncommon courage and conviction’. Her Majesty reflected that ‘no challenge faced by the Ulster Defence Regiment went unmet, whatever the personal cost’.

Society should know and have the opportunity to recognise the extraordinary contribution these men and women have already made – and how they continue to do so to the present day.

I will recall one verse from a poem entitled ‘WUDR’, first published in 1983, that aptly summarises who the Greenfinches were:

‘We are the girls of the WUDR, Greenfinches is our common name,

But not one girl in the WUDR, is seeking fame or fortune,

For everyone in the WUDR, is willing to give a helping hand,

To help our country in its fight, and bring peace to our beloved land.’

As the voice for all veterans living in Northern Ireland, I will continue to speak up for them and again I pay tribute to the men and women who served and continue to serve in our Armed Forces, including the former members of the Ulster Defence Regiment CGC, ever remembering those who made the ultimate sacrifice in serving our country. Society owes deep thanks and gratitude to all of our Armed Forces veterans and their service should never be rewritten as anything other than duty and protection against the evils of terrorism.

Danny Kinahan

NI Veterans Commissioner

14 February 2023


Truth will set Us Free

FAIR has pioneered the concept of Counter-Narratives to Counter Terrorism. This means giving victims a voice and letting them challenge to propaganda and false narratives which are used to radicalise young people and recruit them to support terrorism. By supporting victims to tell their stories we can break the cycle of violence and support for terrorist groups. Terrorism uses a narrative which dehumanises their victims, portraying them as a uniform, or a representative of a state when in reality they are human beings with lives and rights and dreams which are often cruelly ended in the pursuit of a terrorist agenda.

Victims who know the true cost of conflict want to prevent it, and see their stories as the key to countering the false narratives of terrorism. Our truth will set us free from the chains of terrorism and unlock a peaceful future for all. FAIR has always provided a platform for victims to tell their stories, to show the real human face of conflict and the true cost of terrorism. We have worked with victims groups across the globe who share this vision and many important projects have been developed and have built real peace in our time.

The C4C Project, the terrorism survivors’ storytelling, is a global platform for resilience stories and radicalisation awareness. It is a cross national project, supported by the European Commission – DG Home Affairs (ISEC program), started at the beginning of 2013, involving several private, no-profit and public partners, but open to the collaboration of other interested subjects.

The project aim – through ‘The terrorism survivors storytelling’ web platform – is to spread the stories of the victims to the general public and to specific target groups, by collecting, categorizing and giving e-collaborative tools and additional resources for the practical use of these narratives – for example, in educational programs for students and young adults, to empower people with a critical thinking toward hate narratives, or to prevent people from becoming attracted by or permissive towards violent movements, or to de-radicalize people engaged into a radicalisation pathway.

The project is proceeding along three main procedures:
1) The selection, cataloguing, digitization of the materials that contain survivors stories and testimonies, retrieved through the Italian and French associations of victims of terrorism with the availability of other European associations;
2) The design and development of a multilingual platform (The Terrorism Survivors Storytelling) that contains the archive (Global data-base) of the selected materials files. Some of these will be made directly available in their various forms of text, video, photos (Multimedia deposit). That digital material will be used for digital storytelling activity to create new communication/didactic products through the e-collaborative tools, currently on the platform. Furthermore the platform will offer some selected didactic and methodological resources to help its practical usage at the ground floor carried on by practitioners, teachers, tutors for educational/prevention/de-radicalization programs.
3) The enhancement of the strategic value of the C4C project and dissemination of its achieved results during the first two years of its life. A specific target will be a group of students in Italy and France who are going to test the platform and its e-collaborative tools.


Following the Football

A great night was enjoyed by all ages at the National Stadium - Windsor Park. As off-side rules were explained and famous players of yesteryear debated the group had a real lesson in football. The tour of the grounds and then the match was a real high point for many.


FAIR First Aid

First Aid Courses are an important part of FAIR’s yearly calendar, providing useful training for people from all types of workplaces. It is useful for employees, employers, young people and parents and is a must for everyone in the community, as you never know when you will need it.

FAIR hopes to run a number of these courses on demand, so speak to one of the team today to find out the next opportunity and book early to ensure your place.

FAIR have just been able to purchase a Defibrillator through funding by ABC council and 9 members received First Aid training on Monday 20th March. This is a very important piece of equipment and saves lives. It will be placed at Mount Pleasant House , 18 Mowhan Road at their premises where they are able to hold large gatherings during the summer and even during winter evenings.

 


Living Memorial Centre Development

AS FAIR marks its 25th Anniversary they have launched an exciting new Living Memorial Centre Development project. Over 15 years ago the group secured premises in Markethill. In what was the school masters house the group developed the first phase of their Living Memorial centre with a reception and administrative hub, meeting room and multi-purpose space, with kitchen. On the first floor an IT suite, and officers were developed. A memorial garden with a marble memorial funded and designed by friends and supporters on the mainland became the centrepiece with a place for victims to reflect and remember.

The group quickly outgrew the building and as new projects and activities were launched a number of temporary offices were placed on site. Over the last decade the group continued to develop the main building with an extended kitchen and disabled access toilets and storage. However as FAIR looked to its first quarter century one of the key priorities was a major development project to modernise and make their centre fit for the future. As members views were canvassed and professional advice Slough the project took shape with a range of new facilities and multiple-purpose spaces envisaged.

Meetings have already begun with the design team and the committee is turning its attention to fundraising. The ambitious target of £250,000 has been set - £10,000 for every year that FAIR has been in existence. The vision for the centre as a 'living memorial' remains strong and guides the group. It see the centre as a place of safety and support. FAIR has developed their facility at Mount Pleasant House as

An accessible, safe, friendly supportive and well resourced facility where victims can—

  • Remember loved ones they have lost as a result of the past thirty years of terrorism.

  • Meet and share within a social setting where they can share their experiences

  • Access professional services to help them deal with their physical and mental trauma,

  • Develop the skills, confidence and capacity needed to move on with their lives,

  • Receive the support, advocacy and care they deserve from the group they created

  • Deal with the Past and provide their interpretation of it in a positive way

  • Reintegrate into the community forming practical partnerships that benefit all

  • Become a valued group in society playing a full role in building lasting, genuine peace

 


Learning to Save Lives

As part of the wider training and health & well being work of the group we have invested in equipment and training which will save lives. FAIR has a heart not just for victims but the wider community and our defibrillator and training will provide life saving services to the whole community.

FAIR have just been able to purchase a Defibrillator through funding by ABC council and 9 members received First Aid training on Monday 20th March. This is a very important piece of equipment and saves lives. It will be placed at Mount Pleasant House , 18 Mowhan Road at their premises where they are able to hold large gatherings during the summer and even during winter evenings.


European Memorial Day for Victims of Terrorism 2023

United in Remembrance: FAIR Group Attends European Memorial Day for Victims of Terrorism in Belfast

Introduction: In a poignant and heartfelt gathering, the FAIR Group is set to attend the European Memorial Day for Victims of Terrorism at the historic La Mon Hotel in Belfast. As we come together to remember and honor those who have suffered the profound impacts of terrorism, this event stands as a symbol of solidarity, resilience, and the enduring pursuit of justice. The La Mon Hotel, echoing with the shared stories of survival and loss, becomes a space for remembrance and a testament to the strength of those who have faced the harsh realities of terrorism.

A Gathering of Compassion: The European Memorial Day for Victims of Terrorism is a significant occasion that unites people from all walks of life, transcending borders and cultures. This year, the FAIR Group is proud to stand among those who share a common commitment to acknowledging the pain and hardship experienced by victims of terrorism throughout Europe.

As attendees gather at the La Mon Hotel, there is a shared understanding that the impact of terrorism is profound and far-reaching. The event is not just a memorial but a powerful demonstration of solidarity, a coming together of survivors, families, and advocates to collectively address the challenges faced by those affected.

La Mon Hotel: A Symbolic Venue: The choice of the La Mon Hotel as the venue for this significant event adds a layer of historical significance. The hotel, which itself experienced a tragic bombing in 1978, serves as a powerful reminder of the devastating consequences of terrorism. The scars of that event are still visible, making it a poignant location for the FAIR Group and others to pay their respects and reflect on the broader impact of terrorism on individuals and communities.

Honoring the Stories of Resilience: Throughout the day, attendees will have the opportunity to share their stories, experiences, and memories. The FAIR Group, with its commitment to fairness, accountability, integrity, and respect, brings a unique perspective to the event. Members will not only stand in solidarity with victims but also contribute to the ongoing dialogue about the importance of supporting those affected by acts of terrorism.

Speeches, testimonials, and moments of reflection will weave together a narrative of resilience, emphasizing the strength and courage of survivors. By participating in this collective remembrance, the FAIR Group aims to amplify the voices of those who often go unheard and foster a deeper understanding of the long-lasting effects of terrorism.

A Call to Action: As the day unfolds, it is not just a time for reflection but also a call to action. The FAIR Group, alongside other attendees, will renew their commitment to advocating for policies that prioritize the needs of victims and promote a society free from the specter of terrorism. By standing together, we affirm our shared responsibility to work towards preventing future tragedies and creating a world where no one has to endure the pain caused by acts of terror.

Conclusion: The European Memorial Day for Victims of Terrorism at the La Mon Hotel is not just an event; it is a testament to the strength of the human spirit. As the FAIR Group participates in this solemn gathering, we are reminded that through unity and compassion, we can build a future where the shadows of terrorism are replaced with the light of justice, empathy, and resilience. May this day serve as a catalyst for positive change and a beacon of hope for all those impacted by acts of terrorism across Europe.